The truth about compatibility is that it’s immutable.
In other words, the core compatibility, based on handwriting analysis (subconscious character), and comprehensive astrology and numerology (super-conscious makeup) doesn’t change. Each two-person union is unique.
My findings also show me personal timing may improve or worsen compatibility for periods of time, but the fundamentals between two people remain the same.
In commenting on his relationship with Eddie Van Halen, David Lee Roth, lead singer of one of the greatest rock bands of all time, Van Halen, said in 2019, “Conflict between Eddie and me was always there…what you learn in therapy is how to lie to each other.”
Rock bands are notorious for infighting and ego-clashes, but David Lee Roth hit on a truth about relationships: you can’t change the under-lying dynamics of each unique connection, but you can be on your best behavior and try to make the most of it.
My view is that compatibility is something two people have between themselves, rather than something you make. Although similar personal likes, hobbies, and political persuasions might help to bring people together, they don’t change the heart of true compatibility.
The worse the compatibility between two people, the harder they must work to make the relationship acceptable.
Note that innate (as measured through comprehensive astrology and numerology) compatibility between two people could be naturally very high, before the personality challenges (e.g., vanity, anger, resentment, domineering tendencies, dishonesty, drug and alcohol problems, etc.) of one or both individuals are outlined by handwriting analysis and figured into the equation.
An abundance of red flags as outlined by handwriting analysis might yield something like this: “Person A and person B are very compatible, but person B’s extreme personality challenges and person A’s moderate personality challenges make this a troublesome relationship, predominantly for person A.”
Every person with whom you interact, whether it’s a romantic, social, or business relationship, uniquely and inherently harmonizes (or not) with you, and the intrinsic compatibility can be very accurately illustrated on a scale of 1-100, for example.
Knowing that you can’t make great compatibility can make interaction with certain people in your life easier.
Reduce your risk and seek to understand others by striving to know true compatibility.
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