Volumes have been written about compatibility and what makes two people click, whether it’s in a business or personal relationship.
You’ve been there before: you meet someone new and it’s either mutual affinity or mutual revulsion, right from the start, or soon into the involvement.
How do you explain this phenomenon?
The conventional explanations include the obvious (and largely, a lack of any illuminating substance): you must be approachable and responsive to a potential new acquaintance; and it helps to be part of a similar group, one with which you both strongly associate (e.g., work in the same industry, etc.), as well as have similar beliefs, fears, and worries, for example.
You can have all the above, but for some unexplainable reason never achieve that charmed, intense feeling that fosters a mutual sense of self-assurance, one that seems to help validate and boost your self-worth. Thus, the connection never blooms; it lingers on without any real benefit to either of you, or worse.
My view, based on years of empirical research, is that the enigmatic feeling of exquisite compatibility mentioned above either inherently exists between two people, or it doesn’t.
Why do I believe this is true? Because I can identify and measure it through pattern recognition involving handwriting analysis and comprehensive astrology and numerology.
It’s entirely possible to discern extremes and more in relationship compatibility, before the bond even begins: deep mutual appeal, or the opposite, shared loathing.
Wouldn’t that be nice to know ahead of time with potential mates, employees, co-workers, etc.?
Additionally, you can get a sense beforehand if a potential business or relationship partner is likely to greatly benefit you, devastatingly harm you, or somewhere in-between.
You know that really good feeling you get upon meeting someone new (that is, if it’s not heavy, intrinsic, potentially disastrous illusion, which is also identifiable and measurable), or that “something feels horribly wrong” feeling? You could be picking up on the veiled underpinnings of the connection, which are quantifiable through handwriting analysis and comprehensive astrology and numerology.
Although it may not be wise to entirely shun a potential business or personal connection if there’s a chance for even minor mutual gain, the ability to identify innate interpersonal challenges between two people before getting inextricably involved can go a long way in reducing your risk.
Copyright © 2011 Scott Petullo